We all know that we're going to be more successful if we set realistic weight loss goals for ourselves, right? Meaning, those who aim for a size 8 rather than a size 2 are more likely to stick with it and reach their goal because the goal seems more achievable and less overwhelming.
Well, maybe.
According to a study of over 1800 people (published in the International Journal of Obesity), women who set unrealistic weight loss goals lost more weight in 2 years than those who had more moderate expectations.
It was concluded that having an optimistic goal (an unrealistically small dress size, for example) motivated women to lose faster than those who set more moderate expectations . And even though those with the unrealistic goals may have failed to reach them, they didn't give up trying to lose weight. This is completely opposite of the 'in order to succeed, set realistic expectations' advice that we've always heard.
So what do we make of this?
Weight loss, it seems, is like everything else. There's going to be a study that proves one thing, only to be followed the next week by another study that proves just the opposite. All we can do is gather information, sift out what applies to our own situation, and figure out how to use it to help us reach our goals.
And, speaking of goals, in light of this article, should they be high or low?
It's one of those "your mileage may vary" situations. People react to challenges in different ways. If you're a driven person who is motivated by challenging situations, an extreme goal may work for you. On the other hand, if you're a person who tends to feel overwhelmed when presented with a huge challenge, a more moderate goal might be your best bet.
It's a learning curve. With dieting, as with life, we play 'hit and miss' until we figure out what works for us. Knowledge and information can help us with our planning and expectations, but when it comes down to actually losing weight, only one person can determine whether you succeed or fail. And that person is you.